FINDING BALANCE
IN OUR VIEW OF PSYCHOLOGY
by Dr. Ron Newman
This article is a response to eleven points made in an article
written by William McDonald in the 2000 issue of Apuntes Pastorales,
a Christian leadership magazine for Latin America.
A church member approaches you after the service on Sunday and
tells you that his 20 year old son is "acting crazy" at
home, apparently responding to voices he (and he alone) is hearing.
This member, you have heard, also has an uncle who was diagnosed
with schizophrenia many years earlier and committed suicide. This
church member wants your help in ministering to his son.
Another member of your church approaches you and confesses to you
that he had an affair with another woman, and that his wife found
out and left him. He wants you to counsel with him, with the hopes
of reconciliation with his wife.
How do you deal with these situations? Every day, pastors and church
leaders are faced with the question of how to help people who struggle
with a wide variety of problems. Whether we like it or not, we all
"practice psychology", that is, we all have our own ideas
about what makes people do what they do -- and how to intervene
to help them.
In this article, I would like to attempt to bring some balance
to the comments made by
various authors who express what can be called an "anti-psychology"
viewpoint. While their criticisms are valid regarding some specific
people and theories of psychology, they often present a mischaracterization
of the Christian counseling movement. In the interest of speaking
the truth in love, I will attempt to balance their comments throughout
this article.
The challenge is to be as the Berean's in Acts 17:11 and to study
the scriptures to see whether a teaching is in keeping with God's
Word. In so doing, I believe we will see that the anti-psychology
viewpoint does not really shed light on a Biblical view of professional
counseling. I fear that their writings will have a negative impact
on the body of Christ. This can hurt Christians in three primary
ways: 1) By making pastors fearful of psychology, including Christian
psychology, and therefore hinder them from studying authors that
can be of significant help to Christians who are suffering emotionally;
2) By decreasing the number of Christians willing to study psychology
to help the body of Christ from within the profession -- bringing
salt and light as the scriptures encourage (Matt. 5:13-16); 3) In
areas where there are already Christian professionals, "anti-psychology
teaching will hinder pastors from using the resource of those professionals
as an adjunct to their own ministries. Through this lack of trust,
many people will not be helped who indeed could have been helped.
The following points are designed to specifically address issues
delineated by various anti-psychology authors.
1) Dr. Gary Collins, a balanced author in the area of Christian
counseling, views counseling as a type of discipleship ministry
(Matt. 28:19), a position I share along with many other Christian
professionals (Collins, 1980). The goal is to have people find their
victory and healing in Christ. To do this, at times it is necessary
to "examine oneself, to see whether you are in the faith"
(II Corinthians 13:5). Our victory is clearly not in our own ego,
however, although we do want people to grow to where they can state
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me"
(Phil. 4:13).
2) The temptation to rely on human wisdom or opinion versus the
holy wisdom of God's Word is one that all Christians must be on
guard against (I Cor. 3:18). Even the variety of approaches to Christian
counseling shows us that we all "see through a glass darkly,
"although this should not prevent us from continuing to seek
first the kingdom of God or attempting to rightly divide the word
of truth (II Tim. 2:15).
The data of psychology is often fascinating to examine, but the
godless theories and interpretations of that data have indeed led
many people astray (Collins, 1977; Kirwan, 1984). This is why we
need mature Christians to study psychology, yet not compromise their
faith.
3) While it is true that psychological problems are caused by sin,
the issue is more complex. It is not always from the choices of
the individual. Many problems are from the sins of others against
us -- the hurts and traumas inflicted even in our most vulnerable
years of life (Matt. 18:6). Other problems seem to stem from the
affects of original sin on the human species, which includes biological
imperfections -- including vulnerabilities in the brain chemistry
of some people (John 9:3). Finally, it certainly is true that many
problems come from the specific sins of an individual (Galatians
6:8). This complexity should give us reason to be very careful that
we do not fall prey to the temptation of Job's counselors and judge
another person when they are suffering (John 9:3).
While the grace of God offered through the cross is the answer
to the problem of sin, we all are called to minister God's grace
and truth in ways that match the needs of the individual (I Thes.
5:14). Jesus recognized the different ways that sin affected people
and did not approach every person or problem in the same way, and
neither should we (John 4:7-26; John 8:3-11; Matt. 17:14-21; Matt.
23:13-39; Mark 10:17-22) .
4) Responsibility for one's own choices is a hallmark of both healthy
psychology and Biblical Christianity (Galatians 6:5). It is true
that many secular psychologists have sought to rationalize away
sin and even justify their own misbehavior, but this certainly does
not mean we should overgeneralize and ignore everything that any
psychologist studies! Even in the majority of secular counseling
approaches there is an important emphasis on personal responsibility
for a person's choices, otherwise minimal change will occur in the
counseling process. As Christians, our responsibility is to a higher
authority who sees the motivations of our hearts (Hebrews 4:12).
Every pastor who has counseled with couples can understand the
truth of our tendency to shift responsibility away from ourselves.
Many couples claim to want help but are unwilling to change their
own behavior. Often we witness the "Adam and Eve Blame Game",
where each partner seeks to justify his or her own (mis)behavior
and shifts the blame (responsibility) to their partner. Counseling
will not be effective unless the couple is willing and able to move
beyond that stage to where each one accepts full responsibility
for their own behavior and focuses on what he or she can do to improve
the marriage (not on what their partner can do).
5) The Holy Spirit is the one who convicts people of their sin
(John 16:8), and we must be careful to listen to how the Spirit
is leading in our own ministry to others (Romans 8:14). Our relationship
to Jesus Christ through the Holy Spirit is central to our understanding
of ourselves and others.
There is a great deal of teaching in the area of self-esteem that
has humanistic foundations that must be guarded against. However,
many Christian psychologists have written about the foundations
of our self-concept being in Christ (Kirwan, 1984; Dobson, 1979;
McGee, 1985; Wagner, 1975). Perhaps we should use the terminology
"God-esteem" to reflect that our self-esteem is really
based on how God esteems us so highly. The scriptures teach us to
have a healthy and balanced view of ourselves in Christ (Phil. 4:13;
II Cor. 5:17; I Cor. 3:16; I Peter 2:9; II Cor. 12:9). While apart
from Christ we may be worms, in Him we are children of the King.
6) While some critics of professional Christian counseling point
out that counseling used to be done by volunteers who did not charge
fees for counseling, every person in ministry has to find a way
to support the ministry to which God calls them - including pastors.
Most Christian counselors earn incomes in the same range as pastors,
although admittedly you have some exceptions. Ideally, if the body
of Christ were functioning in an optimal manner, the ministry of
counseling could be fully supported as a discipleship ministry of
the church. Unfortunately, the resources are not usually available,
sometimes due to a lack of vision in this area, and thus the separate
ministry of Christian counselling has a place. In order to fund
this ministry, fees are usually necessary.
The "profession of counseling is less prevalent in more depressed
economic regions, since people often cannot afford this "luxury"
of professional help. However, if a person values their mental or
family health, and they have confidence or recognize the benefit
of professional help, they will make great sacrifices to seek the
help they need. In some countries (such as the U.S.A.) where medical
insurance is available to most people, the cost can be greatly reduced
because the insurance will pay for people to see qualified professionals.
Every Christian counselor I have known has entered the profession
out of a deep conviction of God's calling for them to be better
equipped to minister to the needs of people who are suffering. They
are seeking to show compassion and love where it is needed most.
Those who do it out of greed, as some critics suggest, will indeed
have to answer to the Ultimate Judge (II Cor. 5:10; Romans 14:10-12).
7) Most Christian counseling approaches recognize that life is
complex and we must take into consideration the whole person, body,
soul and spirit, when helping someone. In cases of more severe psychopathology,
referral to a physician to rule out medical problems causing those
conditions is standard protocol even in secular settings. Problems
such as anemia, thyroid disorders, and even brain tumors can lead
to a variety of mental health problems. Because of our lack of knowledge,
there is a great deal of debate over the role of "physical
factors" (i.e.- brain chemistry deficiencies, etc.) in a wide
variety of mental health problems.
8) To study God's creation is not an ungodly pursuit, nor is it
ungodly to unite that study with the study of God's Word (Kirwan,
1980). The two actually go together like a finely woven tapestry.
In point of fact, every pastor and teacher of the Word of God already
does unite the two when he applies the scripture in practical ways
in our lives.
While the scriptures are not a psychology textbook, they do presume
the psychological functioning of people. Kirwan argues persuasively
for the integration of psychology and theology, and concludes with
the following statement:
"If indeed the thesis that the Bible presupposes psychology
be true, then to deny or ignore psychological truth is to misrepresent
the biblical message as well as the relevance and application of
Christ's redemption and sanctification of man."
It is important, however, that we do not compromise the scriptures
and fall prey to the danger of simply "proof texting"
secular psychology. While many psychologists have been guilty of
doing this, the same can be said of many Christians, including various
pastors and teachers. When examined properly, however, mature Christians
do not need to fear examining the research that comes out of much
of secular psychology. It is godless interpretations of that research
that we must be careful to guard against.
9) Some critics claim that there is no difference between Christian
counselors and their secular counterparts, which is simply ignorant
of the facts. Statistics from research on the practices of Christian
counselors shows that over 90% of Christian counselors do in fact
pray with their clients (Friesen, Wilder, Bierling, Koepcke, &
Poole, 2000). Furthermore, research even shows that intercessory
prayer back-up for special cases is helpful and sought after by
many Christian counselors (Friesen, et. al., 2000). Besides these
approaches, utilization of the scriptures and encouragement in the
client's relationship with the Lord are frequent dimensions of Christian
counseling that set it apart from secular counterparts.
10) It is a sad fact that some people who go to Christian counselors
or to churches to seek healing for broken lives are judged and hurt
worse by the people who should be offering God's healing touch.
It should not surprise us, since we are warned in the scriptures
that there will be wolves in sheep's clothing (Acts 20:29). Statistics
show, however, that overwhelmingly the Church is a healthy place
for people (Hill & Butter, 1995; Ellison, 1991), in spite of
those exceptions. The number of people who benefit from Christian
counseling far exceeds those cases where people are negatively affected.
The most extensive survey of mental health consumers that was ever
done showed overwhelming evidence that even secular counseling helps
a majority of people (Seligman, 1994). Much research clearly demonstrates
the high success rates of many specific therapies for specific problems
(Roth & Fonagy, 1996). How much more should Christian counseling
that offers God's truth and love in the power of the Holy Spirit
be effective in helping others?
While it may be true that some Christian counselors have not studied
the Bible and theology adequately, this is a challenge that most
Christian counselors have taken seriously. All graduate programs
in Christian counseling do take this issue seriously and seek to
grapple with how to accurately divide the Word of Truth. This is
why the foundations of psychology have to be rebuilt, as Gary Collins
indicates (Collins, 1977).
11) There is power in psychology (as in politics and religion)
to do good or harm, and of course some people have done harm (Acts
20:29). The challenge is for us to be discerning and wise in the
use of our God-given power to do good (II Cor. 13:10). We need to
be careful not to harm the body of Christ by creating barriers that
will hinder Christians from getting the help they need. Some authors
have stigmatized the issue of getting counseling when people are
in need, which has encouraged a proud response (keep the problems
secret) rather than a humble response (seeking help) (I Peter 5:5-6).
Evidence of this barrier to seeking professional help is seen in
the extensive research of the U.S.Congressional study that indicated
only 20% of those who had a recent mental health problem actually
sought professional help (Kessler, McGonagle, Zhao, Nelson, Hughes,
Eshleman, Wittchen, & Kendler, 1994). When you consider that
the same study showed that 29% of the people in the USA have had
some mental health problem in the past year, the number of people
going untreated is staggering (over 120 million people). The statistics
in other parts of the world, I am convinced, are certainly no better.
The body of Christ can do more to reach those millions of people
who experience emotional suffering. While some argue that we only
need to lead people to Christ to solve all of their problems, the
experience of saints around the world shows something different.
If a person is drowning in a river, do you first preach the gospel
to them or do you throw them a rope with a life preserver? In the
same way, reaching out to help people deal with their emotional
and physical needs can be a tremendous means of reaching a hurting
world for Christ. We can then disciple and teach people God's truth
and how it applies to the problems in their lives (Matt. 28:19-20).
The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few.
In Hosea 4:6, God tells us, "My people perish for lack of
knowledge." Since God has given us the gift of general revelation
(creation), to be ignorant of it has caused great harm to the body
of Christ. This is true regarding the field of psychology as well
as other areas of science such as medicine. Reformer John Calvin
spoke to this issue five centuries ago when he wrote:
"Therefore, in reading profane authors, the admirable light
of truth displayed in them should remind us that the human mind,
however much fallen and perverted from its original integrity, is
still adorned and invested with admirable gifts from its Creator.
If we reflect that the Spirit of God is the only fountain of truth,
we will be careful, as we would avoid offering insult to Him, not
to reject or condemn truth wherever it appears. In despising the
gifts, we insult the giver." (Calvin's Institutes, Vol. 1,
1975, pg. 236)
The church must not turn its back on the field of psychology, but
instead should be as a light to the world and salt to this profession.
We need Christians who will be raised up like Daniel, Shadrach,
Meshach and Abednego, who study the wisdom of the world but refuse
to compromise God's truth. The caution to never compromise the Word
of God must be taken very seriously, however, and is one positive
to be gained from the "anti-psychology" movement.
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